I love your halfway done picture on instagram, I'm so happy for you! Congrats on kicking this deployments boo-tay! Also, our fur babies look like they would totally be best friends-- my boyfriend and I just recently adopted a mini Ausie too! Dakota is adorable 😍
Thank you so much!! And AHHH I love Aussies!! Dakota would love a bestie! You are so sweet for the kind words
my very best friend is being deployed in a few days and I'm not sure how I'm going to get thru it.. do you have any advice, id really appreciate it! thank you in advance.
I’m so sorry that you are having to go through this. My best advice is to just stay as busy as you can. Take up a new hobby, get a job, get a dog! hahahaha Those are a few things I did for this deployment and its been a breeze so far! (This is our second one, so it’s been a little easier) I’m one of those people who will sit and think and mope and cry if I have too much time to myself, so my job and my furbaby keep me pretty active. Set goals while they are away, and try your best to reach those goals. When counting down the days, don’t look towards the end but set mini mile markers to countdown to so if doesn’t seem like such a long time. I hope some of this has helped. I know its going to be hard, but keeping positive is the key to surviving a deployment. It makes you happy and it makes them happy. They don’t want to think about you being miserable back home. So chin up, and keep smiling because they will be home again! Deployments don’t last forever. If you ever have questions about deployment or anything, just ask!
Ive been talkIng To a guy for the past 4 months &we both like each other but he wanted to wait untill he got back to get together&asked me to wait for him. Its just i got so attatched to him he just left &i already miss him. I dont know what to do.
I’m so sorry about that! I’m not sure if you mean left for bootcamp or deployment but just know that its really up to you! It can be unfair to put your life on hold for someone that you have no real guarantee will have the same feelings when he is back. I don’t know yalls relationship, but if you both really care about each other, sticking it out is completely doable. I’m sorry I don’t have the best advice for this situation! I wish I knew how long exactly he would be gone!